Geriatric odyssey -a true story

Retired singer and teacher.will be 91 in Feb.

Story begins with loss of husbands ,moving into independent liiving that became assisted living,escaped assisted living Met a man I cared for before I left .Along came covide9 exposing the problems of asststed living.I have not been able to see the man I care for and others since March 2020. Still speak to him 3 times a day.
It is not all sad many happy times and lots of love.

Need help writing and research on assisted and nursing care–
also ageism attitudes in USA